Tight game is what any guy would have if he was raised amongst alphas. Acquiring tight game is the natural result of removing the brainwash that says being a man is a bad thing. Its the combination of being bold, humorous, challenging, sexual, competitive, with strong boundaries and mundane swagger, while seeking risk, hunting big, aiming high, and not giving a shit nor taking anyone else’s crap. So “Game” is just a list of the real man´s natural behaviors.

Neg: a real man can pinpoint anything he doesn’t like and talk openly about it. Rapport: an real man has an interesting, broad and fun life to share. Seduction: a real man pursues to get laid, often and escalating boundaries. Time constrains: a real man is busy, with his big hunt, his social circle and other women. Confidence: a real man knows what he is doing, he has done it all before. Teasing: a real man tries your boundaries to see what you are made of, and celebrates a good comeback.

A real man has thick ass boundaries. Aloofness, self amusement: a real man is happy with himself, living in his own reality. And so on. You can’t “fake it until you make it” because “faking” protects the wrong frame. Becoming, instead, doing stuff to be transformed, works, and takes less work than faking.

Becoming would be easier if there were more real men out there teaching by example, in their absence things like the game culture serve as a road map, sort of an anthropological mirror to compare oneself against. A book of jokes aint a replacement for being genuinely funny, but it might help you to discover your own humor. No need to “fake” being a player when you were born as one. Its more of a self discovery trip.